Published August 13, 2025
By McCann Law | Estate Planning
Death Changes Everything
Before COVID changed the world, a close childhood friend of mine died suddenly. We hadn’t seen each other in years, but his passing hit me hard. As I sat at his funeral, I couldn’t help but wonder: Had he prepared? Did he have a will, life insurance, a trust? Would his family be okay?
Just six months later, another friend was diagnosed with brain cancer. He passed three weeks later—no will, no estate plan, no close family aside from his father. That father had to step into a complicated legal mess: probate court, unpaid medical bills, transferring property. All while grieving his only son.
Why Estate Planning Is More Than Paperwork
Those moments changed me. They clarified what estate planning is really about—protection, clarity, and peace of mind for the people who matter most.
Litigation, by its nature, is adversarial. If everyone agrees, it’s easy. If they don’t, critical decisions fall to attorneys, judges, and a legal process that can strain—if not destroy—relationships. I’ve seen firsthand that even winning in court can leave families fractured. Because when trust breaks down, everyone loses.
Planning Ahead Preserves Relationships
An informed client is an empowered client. End-of-life planning isn’t just paperwork. It’s a proactive step to help your people avoid conflict, preserve relationships, and protect the legacy you’ve built.
Whether it’s a will, trust, advance directive, or power of attorney, these tools give your loved ones clarity when they need it most. They prevent confusion, reduce stress, and ensure your wishes are honored.
You May Never Feel Ready—But You Can Be Prepared
Life doesn’t always give us time to prepare. But estate planning gives you control over what happens next. It’s not about fear—it’s about love, responsibility, and peace of mind.
If you’re ready to make a plan, I’d be honored to help. Let’s talk through your options and create a strategy that protects your people and your legacy.
📞 Call McCann Law at (918) 565-0070
💬 I’ll help you get the legal answers you’re seeking—with clarity and compassion.